"Inna Lillah wa Inna Ilayhi raji'oun"
("To God we belong and to God we return" the Holy Quran)
I guess we all have something we grow attached to, wether it's material or people. It might just be me but, getting attached seems so much easier than getting detached. Have you ever thought about how to face a loss before it even accurs? How you fear of not being able to take it? How you let go of a gift scared of losing it? In other words how to prepare confronting reality.
Some might think that living your reality is more important than preparing for one. That it's stupid to test your limits before reaching there. And some thinks that living the moment and taking things as they come is stupid, that it's necessary to be one step ahead. Both ways having one thing incommon though and that's, wanting to make it easier to live.
What I have come to learn is that, facing loss at the time of happening and preparing for it, has no effect on making it easier. It will still hurt, depending on the spot for that loss has in your heart. But one thing is for sure, God (s.w.t) will not take away what you cannot live without. What makes me feel at ease is knowing God(s.w.t) is always there with mercy, generosity and justice. Lhamdella, Lhamdella, Lhamdella for having you God (s.w.t) and for letting my heart see you, to feel secure and at ease.